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Communicating a sense of personal power comes from a belief that you can reach your goals in your own way. Powerful people empower others and encourage others to express themselves openly. You communicate a sense of personal power by developing these traits:
Authority. Authority is inner confidence—a trust in your skills and abilities. It comes from the inside, from an attitude of "I can do that" "I deserve success". This attitude radiates outward as you assert your rights, honestly ask for what you want and need, and develop a willingness to give to others and yourself.
Assertiveness. Assertive behavior is active, direct, and honest. It communicates an impression of self-respect and respect for others. By being assertive, we view our wants, needs, and rights as equal with those of others. An assertive person wins by influencing, listening, and negotiating so that other people choose to cooperate willingly.
Accessibility. The powerful person is a master networker. Good network increases your visibility and gives you a valuable circle of people from whom you can give and receive support and information. Imagine yourself as the hub of a wheel surrounded by spokes of contacts.
Image. Image you communicate power through your image. Do you project an image consistent with strong leadership? Stand tall and walk proudly, remembering that you have value as a person. When you meet others, make direct contact and keep your handshake firm and friendly. Clearly state who you are and what you do.
Communication habits. take a deep breath to project a firm voice. Avoid slang, and jargon, and vocal hesitations that can hinder effective communication. Use only the body movements and gestures necessary to make your point, no more. Learn how to write clearly and succinctly.
展示自己的魅力源自于一种观念——按照自己的方式实现自己的目标。有影响力的人可以带动、鼓舞其他人毫不隐讳地表达自己。你可以通过培养这些特点来展示自己的魅力：
权威。权威是一种内心的自信——是对你的技能和能力的信任。它发自内心，来自于“我能行”“我应该成功”的态度。当你维护自己的权利，真诚地要求你的所需、所想时，这种态度就得以流露，并成为一种意愿来传递给他人和自己。
果断。果断的举止是主动的、直率的、诚实的。它传达出一种自尊与尊重他人的感觉。果断让我们看到了自己的所想、所需和与他人平等的权利。一个果断的人通过影响、倾听他人，并与之洽谈取胜，因此他人都愿意选择与他合作。
易接近。有影响力的人是位网络构建大师。好的人际关系可以增加你的知名度，使你拥有一个重要的人际圈。你可以施与支持和信息给这个圈子里的人，也可以接收到他们给予你的。把自己想象成一个轮子的中心，四周由联系着的轮辐围绕。
形象。你的魅力通过你的形象展现。你展现出了一种与强大的领导能力相吻合的形象吗？站得挺直，走得昂首阔步，时刻记得：你是个有价值的人。与他人见面时，大方地与之接触，握手有力而友好，清楚地说明你是谁，你的工作是什么。
交际习惯。深吸一口气，使自己的语气听起来坚定。不说粗话、行话，犹豫的语气会妨碍交流的有效进行。只用必要的肢体语言和手势来阐述你的观点，不可过多使用。学会清晰简洁的书面表达技巧。
Work is the grand cure of all the maladies and miseries that ever beset mankind.
—Carlyle
工作是医治人间一切病痛和疾苦的万能良药。
——卡莱尔
empower[im?pau?]v.授予权力；允许
The new laws empower the police to search private house.
新的法律使警察得以搜查私人住宅。
authority[?:?θ?riti]n.权力；权威；当局
This old man is a leading authority on wheat diseases.
这位老人是小麦病虫害方面的权威。
radiate[?reidieit]v.放射；散发；辐射
Most of Britain's motorways radiate from London.
英国大多数的公路从伦敦向各个方向辐射。
succinctly[s?k?si?ktli]adv.简明地；简洁地
Please state your case as succinctly as possible.
请尽可能简洁地陈述一下你的病情。
展示自己的魅力源自于一种观念——按照自己的方式实现自己的目标。
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果断的举止是主动的、直率的、诚实的。它传达出一种自尊与尊重他人的感觉。
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把自己想象成一个轮子的中心，四周由联系着的轮辐围绕。
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Do you project an image consistent with strong leadership?
consistent with：符合；与……一致
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Communication habits take a deep breath to project a firm voice.
take a deep breath：深呼吸
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